* bugfix: fix race condition when updating presence via /sync
Previously when presence is updated via /sync, we would send the presence update
asyncly via NATS. This created a race condition:
- If the presence update is processed quickly, the /sync which triggered the presence
update would see an online presence.
- If the presence update was processed slowly, the /sync which triggered the presence
update would see an offline presence.
This is the root cause behind the flakey sytest: 'User sees their own presence in a sync'.
The fix is to ensure we update the database/advance the stream position synchronously
for local users.
* Bugfix for test
* Use filter and limit presence count
* More limiting
* More limiting
* Fix unit test
* Also limit presence by last_active_ts
* Update query, use "from" as the initial lastPos
* Get 1000 presence events, they are filtered later
Co-authored-by: Neil Alexander <neilalexander@users.noreply.github.com>
